How to Know If Your Man is Cheating

Women absolutely feel curious and suspicious when they see some changes from their partners that are drastically different. Some think he hides anything from his partner and other may think that anything happens behind and he does not want his partner to know it. And many women even think that their partners are cheating but they do not know how to reveal it in right ways, because they do not have enough evidences. Not few couples have debated and discussed but it ends up with fight and door-slamming. These are some tips for women on how to reveal your partner’s secret if he has a forbidden relation with another woman.

1.      Behavior

Note your partner’s behaviors. If his behaviors change drastically and you feel too much different from the previous days, it can be noted he is cheating. Behaviors can be in some aspects.

a.      Sex Drive

Pay attention to his sex drive. If you see his sexual desire suddenly reduces and he is less interested in sex anymore, if he used to have you in bed and now not, note that he may get his sex with another woman. But it does not mean that if your sex decreases for a while. Then, see when he gets dissatisfied of sexual appetite, it can be meant that his sex has turned to another woman. When you are having sex with him, see whether he has different style of sex, different movement and it does not look like what you both used to do before, it may mean that he gets all of those from his secret woman. Sex drive is the main step to know if he is cheating on you or not.

b.      Suddenly Kind and Showering You with Love

When you feel that he suddenly acts kindly and gives much affection than before, and you see that it looks exaggerating, note that he may cheat on you. He just feels guilty because he has betrayed and been unfaithful with you. It can be seen that usually he does not demonstrate his feeling, then suddenly he expresses it with love remarks, he gives you flower, gift, etc. He just wants you to know that he really loves you but actually there is something hidden behind his act.

c.       Much More Helpful

If you see that your man suddenly becomes more helpful than before, he replaces the whole habits in doing the households, like cooking, doing the dishes, shopping and anything else, you should be aware. But it does not mean that he changes his habits and becomes nice suddenly just because he wants anything from you.

d.      Mood

See his mood, if he changes his mood quickly and becomes unstable just like hot and cold, he feels upset when going home and he wreaks his feeling by blaming anything that does not seem wrong, note that something happens with him. You can also see when he is thinking or imagining something and suddenly he becomes moody and excited. And then, watch his gesture after receiving a call or short message and suddenly his mood changes drastically, then you should pay attention.

e.       Social Media

Computer and phone can be the reason if he is cheating. See when usually he leaves his phone on the desk and he does not care if you pick it or when you see his computer on and you read his account, then suddenly he becomes too much protective, he gets panic when losing his phone or he feels annoyed when you take his phone or read his account, then he gets nervous whenever you ask him about who is on the other line, he suddenly ends the conversation on the phone when you appear, he puts password on his phone that is never done before, then you must pay attention, there is another woman.

f.       His Excuses

Pay attention to his excuses. If he usually cares about you, always gives you speech on the way you look and behave, then he suddenly ignores what usually he does, he might be thinking of someone else.

2.      Physical Appearance

See his daily behaviors, if he suddenly changes his style of clothing, different gestures when you are talking to him and he pays much attention to his body for being more attractive, it might be for anyone else.

a.      Grooming Habits

If your man usually never cares about his look, then he suddenly becomes more excited in grooming his appearance, like shaving, having different style of clothing, different perfume, he may be ready for someone else. And note that whenever he comes home then he takes shower soon, he may want to clean his body from his woman’s scent before it is sniffed by you.

b.      Different Smell

If you see he smells different, just like lotion, perfume and anything feminine, this is a big sign that he has just spent his time for another woman.

c.       Gestures

Though he tells you what he has done, his gesture will tell you the truth. Look at his eyes, when you both usually talk and look into the eyes each other, then he suddenly moves his eyes away whenever you ask him, it can be meant that he feels guilty of what he has done. Then, if you see he feels uncomfortable when you are talking and he tends to turn back his body, he shows of lack affection that usually he hugs you, kisses you and share his feeling but not anymore, it can be noted that he has another woman.

d.      His Body

When you see that usually your man never cares about his body then suddenly he goes to gym and he has diet to rebuild his body, it can be meant he just wants to care his body or there may be he does it for the secret woman.

3.      Catch him

The last thing you should do to reveal his truth is asking him whether he is cheating on you or not. Collect the evidences as many as possible that prove he is cheating on you.

a.      Check His Properties

The step that can be helpful is checking his properties. Check his computer when he is getting away, check his email, facebook, and any other social media, if he deletes the history and messages, it can be a sign that he does not want you to know what is happening. Then, try to check his phone, his history calls, messages and contact list. If you find anything suspicious just like there is no message and call history, or even a password required on the phone, you must be on alert. Don’t forget, also check his other properties like his wallet, desk and clothes, you may find some clues. Also how much money he has spent through his bank account. If he tells you he always comes home late due to his work, you may think that there will be no money to spend, but if you find he spends much money, he may have time and fun with another woman.

b.      Spy Him

Spying is the certain way to find if he is cheating or not. Follow him when he goes out but don’t forget not to ride your own vehicle. You can rent a car so that he does not know that you are following him, also keep the distance when you are spying him, don’t be too close and wear some properties like sunglasses, coat and wig to avoid his suspicion. Then, try to call or send him sms where he goes and pretend that you are at home, if you find him telling a lie, if he is telling you that he goes to his office or visits his friend’s house, you can pretend and tell him that you are about to go there to see him.

c.       Ask Him

The last one is asking him if he is cheating or not. After having enough evidences that he is cheating on you, then ask him directly that you want the truth of him. You can ask him if you want to have conversation, ask him in a sudden way so that he has no chance to think of arranging a lie. And don’t tell him that you have an important talk so that he is not getting suspicion of what you will ask. Then ask that you want him to tell the truth, tell him that he is not doing anything behind you, ask him that if he is cheating or not. Talk slowly, calmly, with cold head that he really hurts you, tell him that being betrayed is painful, tell him that if he were you, the one who is betrayed by her man, and tell him that he is making you extremely sad.