Pleasing A Woman

There are many simple things to do to make a woman happy, though in these days men still fight to find out what makes their partners pleased. Actually, it is not as hard as you think. If you want to make your woman happy, just do what’s on the list below. But you don’t need to do all these things, just choose the best ones that you think they are possible and simple to be done.

1.      Call her beautiful or pretty.

Anytime you are with her, tell that she is the most beautiful woman you have ever had in life. Show your feeling that you adore her, comment her that she becomes more beautiful day by day. Sometimes, don’t just call her beautiful, you may have any other word like pretty, gorgeous, adorable, etc. You will have her become awkward.

2.      Give her unexpected gift.

No need to wait her birthday or special day, anytime you can give her a gift. Make her surprised and impressed, the simple thing to do is giving her some flowers or chocolate while appreciating her. Tell her that she is the best partner and you love her so much. Or you can give her any other fancy things like handbag, shoes, perfume or a golden ring, as long as you have enough money. All women like jewelry.

3.      Make her as your priority.

Always make her number one, don’t consider her as your choice but your priority.

Make her as number one in life. Just throw away your duties anytime you are with her. Everything you do is just for her including your career affair, you do job because of her.

4.      Motivate her when she falls down.

This is what woman needs when she has a trouble. When she gets upset, you must fight against her despair and make her flare again. Hug and hold her hands, look at her eyes and tell her that you must rise. Tell that you are always with her at any condition. Be her advocate. She‘ll think that you are the best man ever because you are with her not only in a sweet situation but you get along with her when she falls down also.

5.      Support her aspiration or ambition.

Give her support whenever she expects something, don’t try to make her upset by disagreeing her ambition. Just help get what she wants. When you just stop and exterminate her ambition, she’ll think that you don’t respect her and she is not allowed to do anything right by you.

6.      Tell that you need her so much.

Express your feeling by telling that you need her so much and you don’t want any other woman because she is the best one. Tell that she is the woman that you have been looking for. Her kindness, her softness, her beauty, there is no women like her. Tell her that you’ll be dying if you lose her, it’s just like losing a half-life of you.

7.      Give her hug, cuddle and kiss.

No need to wait when you both go to bed. You can hug, cuddle, kiss her anytime you are with her. Hold her when you both are watching a movie, cuddle her when you both are sitting on the sofa and kiss her before you go to work. Your relation will be warm and stay forever by these stuffs. Many couples gripe their relations that it is just too cold, dry and tasteless because they miss those ones.

8.      Introduce her to your friends.

Whenever you get along with your friends, just introduce your partner and treat her as the same when you both are alone. Don’t be shy to express your feeling that you love her. Your woman will feel appreciated and respected because you have confessed her as your partner and not hide her as your privacy among your friends.

9.      Be there when your woman needs you.

Just be there whenever she needs you. When a woman needs her partner to help anything she cannot do, you must be there for her, don’t let anyone be with her. Just be with her if she needs to repair anything, or even if she just wants to share her story and experience. So don’t be absent.

10.  Don’t make debate when arguing, just support her.

This is what we call egoism. Many couples end their relations because of their emotion, because of their different arguments and they both don’t want to budge. When you are arguing with your partner, try to control your strong opinion. Don’t be so harsh and want to win your argument. When you win it, you lose her. So just support her. Throw your arguments because this is not a debate competition.

11.  Take the first steps before she is starting.

Always start first before her. This is not about the lady first but it tends to be man’s action. You must do anything first before her just like you start to talk first when you are with her, decide the talk topic and don’t be too silent and wait for her to start first. If you do so, she’ll think you are just a boring guy with a blank head. It is just a common and simple thing that most women think about. Then, when go with her, like cinema, match, restaurant or whatever, don’t ever summon your woman to book, call the waiter/waitress and do what she should not do. Those should belong to you, man.

12.  Be a good joker.

This is also important to make your partner laugh and avoid the boredom. Be a good joker for her, anytime she feels bored, upset, sad, and any bad condition, just try to entertain and make her laugh. Women like a man who has sense of humor, it will make the days full of fun and cheer. Sometimes, serious attitude of a man is needed in certain condition, but too much serious is not good, it is boring. So guys, improve your sense of humor!

13.  Don’t hide anything from her.

Don’t hide anything from her even if you’ve just received a call from your boss. Except if you have a surprise for her. Just let her know everything in you, let her know your history, your family, your job career, your friends, all about you. By doing this, you and your partner will be so close to each other and become intimacy. This makes your relation become stronger. Many men do not tell his past and hide their history because they just don’t want to know that the partners find anything negative in them. Just like that they have ever been married before, got bad romance and got divorced. So just tell your partner what really happened to you. Moreover, when you talk about what you have, including your past, your career, your life, she’ll think that she has become the one who is trusted by you. Moreover, your partner is not a stranger for you.

14.  Comment her look positively.

Whenever she dresses up and shows you off what she has, just give her positive comments. Appreciate her of what she has done for you, don’t try to make her upset or she will not do it anymore if you do so. Like when she wears a night gown then you give her appreciation by telling her that she is beautiful, she looks slim, she looks young, she makes you melt and anything that makes her appreciated.

15.  Always say thanks when she does any little thing to you.

Don’t forget to say thanks whenever she does something nice to you. Though it is just little thing, but you must praise her. When you treat her like this, it will show that you have a sensitive feeling and care in every little thing she does and don’t forget to do the same as she does for you.

16.  Romantic atmosphere.

Winter is coming, but it doesn’t mean that this must be done during the winter. Just imagine that  you make a romantic situation when you both are alone. Bring her to the romantic room, with dim light and candles. Sit on the chair or floor and cover yourself and your partner with blanket while feeling the snow falls outside, holding her and share your feeling while offering her a cup of chocolate and listening to Michael Buble’s romantic songs, slow jazz music that makes you both feel relaxed and don’t forget to kiss her. Women always want this situation.

17.  Never forget the anniversary, of course.

This is a simple thing, not to forget the anniversary. Give her a surprise by bringing her to a fancy restaurant or you may make your own place for dinner with romantic decoration and some violinists around (or it can be a tape, if you cant’t afford). Also don’t forget to give her a present like ring, necklace, bracelet, any kind of jewelry. It makes your woman thinks you are the best man ever and of course she is melting like the candle on your dinning table.

18.  Be an active man.

Don’t show your laziness whenever you are with her. Don’t show that you like to have idle. Women hate a man who is less active. So keep yourself lively and spry, this will make your woman in agility too if she sees her man has such a huge spirit.

19.  Sex drive, sorry (uncensored).

Always give what she likes. When you are doing sex with her, just let her enjoy what she likes, do for her what she wants and don’t think about your own enjoyment. You may also try different styles and places for sex. Do not stick at one style, it’s boring, try the different ones, make her wild and moan loudly. Also try different rooms like in the living room or bathroom. Be hot, adventurous and keep lively, but again, don’t forget to make your lady get to the top first. And don’t fall asleep after finishing it, cuddle and care her for a while and tell that she is the best.

20.  Share the household activities.

This is important to make your woman proud. Don’t give all the households to her, just share these affairs like caring the kids, cooking, etc. This is the era of 21^st century where there is no difference between man and woman in doing the households. You can do cooking while your woman is showering the kids. And also give her a chance to care herself like going to the beauty shop, shopping and do her female affairs while you are doing the households at home. You will also understand that your woman’s roles are not easy.

21.  Do the things what she hates to do.

Take your role when she doesn’t like to do the stuff she hates, like cleaning the bathroom and sink, so just be there for her. Also, women don’t like to bring the garbage, so just don’t let her hands dirty and throw the household waste by your hands.

22.  Don’t be too much dominating.

It is not about an urinating lion which shows its domain. But it is about controlling your woman too much just like don’t do this, don’t do that, you should be like this, you should be like that. She is not a cat which must obey its master. So treat her the way she likes. Don’t make her feel pressured. Don’t forget to ask her if she feels happy or not when you treat her, if not, just tell what should be done and what she wants so that she feels comfortable.

23.  Be a good listener.

Though it may be boring for some men, but this has to be done. Don’t ever say simple words like yes, yup, okay, aha, when she is sharing the story. Express your empathy and sympathy. Feel that if you were in her position to understand what she has experienced. You can also ask some questions to show that you really care, like what, how, why. Those will make long answers instead of yes or no. Also again, you must be able to appease her.

24.  Don’t stare at other women when walking with her.

This is important, pay much attention to this one. Don’t ever have eye contact with any other women when you are walking with your partner. Don’t stare other women’s boobs and butts. This will be dangerous, your partner will conclude that you are a playboy, bad and disloyal guy. Even your partner will think that you can do cheating easily at anytime. The result is she leaves you. So just keep your eyes on your partner, watch her beautiful smile, gorgeous eyes and her pretty face.

25.  Don’t watch pornography.

Women don’t like if their men enjoy pornography. It seems like he does not need his partner to hook up and he is not satisfied by having her. And she’ll think that he has his own fantasy through those porn actresses instead of his own partner. You can also talk to her if you have a problem during sex activity with her so that the problem is solved. No need to watch porn if you have the sexiest woman in the world.

How to Know If Your Man is Cheating

Women absolutely feel curious and suspicious when they see some changes from their partners that are drastically different. Some think he hides anything from his partner and other may think that anything happens behind and he does not want his partner to know it. And many women even think that their partners are cheating but they do not know how to reveal it in right ways, because they do not have enough evidences. Not few couples have debated and discussed but it ends up with fight and door-slamming. These are some tips for women on how to reveal your partner’s secret if he has a forbidden relation with another woman.

1.      Behavior

Note your partner’s behaviors. If his behaviors change drastically and you feel too much different from the previous days, it can be noted he is cheating. Behaviors can be in some aspects.

a.      Sex Drive

Pay attention to his sex drive. If you see his sexual desire suddenly reduces and he is less interested in sex anymore, if he used to have you in bed and now not, note that he may get his sex with another woman. But it does not mean that if your sex decreases for a while. Then, see when he gets dissatisfied of sexual appetite, it can be meant that his sex has turned to another woman. When you are having sex with him, see whether he has different style of sex, different movement and it does not look like what you both used to do before, it may mean that he gets all of those from his secret woman. Sex drive is the main step to know if he is cheating on you or not.

b.      Suddenly Kind and Showering You with Love

When you feel that he suddenly acts kindly and gives much affection than before, and you see that it looks exaggerating, note that he may cheat on you. He just feels guilty because he has betrayed and been unfaithful with you. It can be seen that usually he does not demonstrate his feeling, then suddenly he expresses it with love remarks, he gives you flower, gift, etc. He just wants you to know that he really loves you but actually there is something hidden behind his act.

c.       Much More Helpful

If you see that your man suddenly becomes more helpful than before, he replaces the whole habits in doing the households, like cooking, doing the dishes, shopping and anything else, you should be aware. But it does not mean that he changes his habits and becomes nice suddenly just because he wants anything from you.

d.      Mood

See his mood, if he changes his mood quickly and becomes unstable just like hot and cold, he feels upset when going home and he wreaks his feeling by blaming anything that does not seem wrong, note that something happens with him. You can also see when he is thinking or imagining something and suddenly he becomes moody and excited. And then, watch his gesture after receiving a call or short message and suddenly his mood changes drastically, then you should pay attention.

e.       Social Media

Computer and phone can be the reason if he is cheating. See when usually he leaves his phone on the desk and he does not care if you pick it or when you see his computer on and you read his account, then suddenly he becomes too much protective, he gets panic when losing his phone or he feels annoyed when you take his phone or read his account, then he gets nervous whenever you ask him about who is on the other line, he suddenly ends the conversation on the phone when you appear, he puts password on his phone that is never done before, then you must pay attention, there is another woman.

f.       His Excuses

Pay attention to his excuses. If he usually cares about you, always gives you speech on the way you look and behave, then he suddenly ignores what usually he does, he might be thinking of someone else.

2.      Physical Appearance

See his daily behaviors, if he suddenly changes his style of clothing, different gestures when you are talking to him and he pays much attention to his body for being more attractive, it might be for anyone else.

a.      Grooming Habits

If your man usually never cares about his look, then he suddenly becomes more excited in grooming his appearance, like shaving, having different style of clothing, different perfume, he may be ready for someone else. And note that whenever he comes home then he takes shower soon, he may want to clean his body from his woman’s scent before it is sniffed by you.

b.      Different Smell

If you see he smells different, just like lotion, perfume and anything feminine, this is a big sign that he has just spent his time for another woman.

c.       Gestures

Though he tells you what he has done, his gesture will tell you the truth. Look at his eyes, when you both usually talk and look into the eyes each other, then he suddenly moves his eyes away whenever you ask him, it can be meant that he feels guilty of what he has done. Then, if you see he feels uncomfortable when you are talking and he tends to turn back his body, he shows of lack affection that usually he hugs you, kisses you and share his feeling but not anymore, it can be noted that he has another woman.

d.      His Body

When you see that usually your man never cares about his body then suddenly he goes to gym and he has diet to rebuild his body, it can be meant he just wants to care his body or there may be he does it for the secret woman.

3.      Catch him

The last thing you should do to reveal his truth is asking him whether he is cheating on you or not. Collect the evidences as many as possible that prove he is cheating on you.

a.      Check His Properties

The step that can be helpful is checking his properties. Check his computer when he is getting away, check his email, facebook, and any other social media, if he deletes the history and messages, it can be a sign that he does not want you to know what is happening. Then, try to check his phone, his history calls, messages and contact list. If you find anything suspicious just like there is no message and call history, or even a password required on the phone, you must be on alert. Don’t forget, also check his other properties like his wallet, desk and clothes, you may find some clues. Also how much money he has spent through his bank account. If he tells you he always comes home late due to his work, you may think that there will be no money to spend, but if you find he spends much money, he may have time and fun with another woman.

b.      Spy Him

Spying is the certain way to find if he is cheating or not. Follow him when he goes out but don’t forget not to ride your own vehicle. You can rent a car so that he does not know that you are following him, also keep the distance when you are spying him, don’t be too close and wear some properties like sunglasses, coat and wig to avoid his suspicion. Then, try to call or send him sms where he goes and pretend that you are at home, if you find him telling a lie, if he is telling you that he goes to his office or visits his friend’s house, you can pretend and tell him that you are about to go there to see him.

c.       Ask Him

The last one is asking him if he is cheating or not. After having enough evidences that he is cheating on you, then ask him directly that you want the truth of him. You can ask him if you want to have conversation, ask him in a sudden way so that he has no chance to think of arranging a lie. And don’t tell him that you have an important talk so that he is not getting suspicion of what you will ask. Then ask that you want him to tell the truth, tell him that he is not doing anything behind you, ask him that if he is cheating or not. Talk slowly, calmly, with cold head that he really hurts you, tell him that being betrayed is painful, tell him that if he were you, the one who is betrayed by her man, and tell him that he is making you extremely sad.