It is the 21st century,
the era of modernization. Mainly for women, they are not supposed to do
anything at home only and serve their husbands. The time has changed and women
can even be more than men. Becoming a modern woman in this century is a must
for each one. So get your move, leave your old habits and rock the world. These
are some steps for being a modern woman.
1. Job/career
Not
only men, women also have the right to have a job and career. In many developed
countries, women mostly have their own job and their lives do not depend on
their husbands. Time is money, that’s what Mr. Crab always yells. Many women
in this era contribute their abilities and innovation and give something new in
the world’s development, even they can be more intelligent more than men. So,
there is no perception that women’s roles are only being at home and do the
house chores. That’s an old thought and primitive.
2. Mobilization
Get
your movements ladies. The world is wide, there are many things to be discovered
and learned. Don’t stick yourself in your cage or you’ll miss the opportunity.
Go travel to the place you want to and find new knowledge. It means that women
also have the right of being far from their home because of their needs like
studying and job career or even traveling. So, go and this world is under
your feet ladies.
3. Open-minded
The
world is colorful. There are many things different from one to another. So,
don’t be plebeian. Be ready to accept the change such as technology, culture, ethnicity and many more. Ladies, you should be ready for a change that comes
in your life, don’t stick yourself in your monotone life, just be flexible,
break the wall of darkness and free yourself. Give welcome to the new world.
4. Life style
Ladies
like to be stylish and attractive. Get your furry coat and pink boats. It means
that in this modernization, physical appearance and style are a must. Who
doesn’t want to look beautiful? No one. Charm is the dream of ladies and style
is something that goes with it. So ladies, leave your old fashioned mode and be
beautiful with the recent brands of new styles. Grab your new branded bag and
have a date with your man in a fancy restaurant.
5. Marriage?
The
possibility that marriage will ruin your body and career may be right. The
limited mobilization because you have a baby can be right too. Many women are
still confused if they should get married or not. The important thing is you
can build your career and spend your productive age in your field and get
married after it is fulfilled. Many busy women in the developed countries get
married at the age of 30 or maybe more and most of them spend their lives in
their careers or business one. The rate of divorce and cheating are also high
that those mostly happen to the young couples. So, marriage can be a need too
but one thing that you ladies should know is that you should look for a partner
who understands your business and give tolerance to you.
6. Attitude
The
insist of good attitude is needed when you want to be a modern woman. Becoming
an educated one is the main thing that you must have. Women tend to be soft and
understanding. Remember ladies, you are not an emotional teen who is unstable
in facing anything in front of you, so keep calm and be mature. Then, pay
attention to your speech and the way you act. Like when you do arguments with
your friends, you must be respectful, smart and don’t be low self-esteem.
Remember, you are an educated woman, you are mentally constructed and you are gorgeous. You are the most precious creature, so make the people around you
happy and comfortable.
7. Equalization
This
is not the primitive era which women have lower status than men. This 21st
is the state that both men and women are equal, they have the same right
in everything. For those ones who still think that ladies should stay at home,
do the house chores and care the babies, they are just left behind. So ladies,
never think that your state is limited, mostly when you have a family. So, sharing
the house chores with your partner can be the best choice and you can enjoy the
life.
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